Thursday, October 13, 2016

Talley-Ho Luncheon


It's no secret that I love horses and that I love an equestrian decor.
I have many of those elements in my home.  I also think an
equestrian theme works so well with tartan.  



Yesterday,  an idea for an equestrian tablescape popped into my head.
I thought it would be fun to combine the more rustic with the more
refined.  Cut crystal, wicker charger and our pearl handled flatware
work together to create an eclectic and friendly setting.




Crafty Mr Fox is on center stage as well as on this metal tag
hanging off the grapevine napkin ring.  




I love these horse brasses on a leather strap atop the tartan.  I can 
imagine finding them in an old English country house which is a look
I really love.

Y'all have a great Thursday and thanks for stopping by!


Big Texas Hugs,
Susan and Bentley



Tuesday, October 11, 2016

A favorite Autumn Memory


Years ago, when I was in my teens, one fall afternoon a friend and I took
our horses to a forest preserve for an after school ride.  It was a day that
lives in my memory.  A crisp cool afternoon that was cool enough to need
a sweater, yet the sun filtering though the red and golden leaves warmed
our skin.   

As we trotted through the paths that wound through the forest, I could
hear the the sound of crunching leaves under my horse's hooves.  My
friend and I did not speak.  We were just enjoying the calm and
peaceful sounds of that afternoon in the woods.  

Eventually we reached a meadow which was the signal to shift the
gait from trot to canter and then to a gallop.  The sun was shining
down upon us and my sweet horse and I were as one speeding
along under the golden sun.  Free!

As we reached the path that led us back to the stable, I knew
even then that the memory of this glorious afternoon would live
forever in my heart and that there would never be another
afternoon in Autumn quite so memorable.

Thanks for listening.

Big Texas Hugs,
Susan and Bentley

Monday, October 10, 2016

Romantic Pumpkins


Who says that pumpkins can't be romantic?  They don't all have to
be orange and they can find themselves somewhere other than
a pumpkin patch.  


Like this!


Big Texas Hugs,
Susan and Bentley

Sunday, October 9, 2016

Sunday in My Studio


I had a very good night's sleep last night and woke up feeling so much
better this morning.  I decided to just continue to take it easy today
despite the feeling that I can do anything.  David is playing in the 
Bluebonnet Golf Tournament today and tomorrow, so Bentley and I
are on our own and just hanging out together.

When I head to my studio, I put on my favorite music.  At the 
moment I am listening to the soundtrack from the movie Little Women.
I have always been so influenced by music and whatever I listen to 
really changes my mood.  Does music affect you this way too?

Color influences me too.  I am not a neutral girl.  Too much brown,
beige or gray makes me feel sad after a while.  Lately I have been
loving yellow.  



I have been finding more ways to incorporate yellow into the color
scheme of my studio.  I always want this space to feel happy and
cheery.  I have some vintage yellow pillowcases that I want to 
turn into throw pillows.  



When I found this little yellow chick at a thrift shop years ago, I didn't 
have any yellow in my color scheme at the time, but could not pass 
him up.  Suddenly he feels right at home.

Thank you for all your kind words regarding my Fibromyalgia battle.
I hate feeling sorry for myself, but yesterday I was.  Today things are
looking up and I will survive.  Wait, I know I have a CD with that 
song on it somewhere ;-)

Big Texas Hugs,
Susan and Bentley



Saturday, October 8, 2016

My Struggle With Fibromyalgia


Today is not a good day for me.  It's not the weather, because it is 
beautiful outside.  The best weather we have experienced in months.
Yet, it's hard to me to get out there and enjoy it right now because I 
am having a Fibromyalgia flare-up.  It's probably the worst flare-up
I have ever had.  I have been fortunate because the last one was
two and one half years ago after my Mom died.

I was originally diagnosed years ago, before I was married.  The 
townhouse I was living in was struck by lightning during a summer
storm.  It burned to the ground while I was at work leaving me
homeless and left with just the clothes on my back and my car.
The car was stolen from a Houston shopping parking lot two
weeks later while I was inside a Target store buying household
items for my new apartment.

My world had fallen apart and I fell apart physically too.  I
went to a doctor who could find nothing wrong with me 
despite my panic attacks, and pain all over my body and
the most debilitating headaches and fatigue.  He came to the
conclusion that I had Fibromyalgia.



Fibromyalgia is not a disease, it is a syndrome that leaves it's victim 
suffering with pain throughout the body.  It doesn't affect the joints like
arthritis does, but rather deep muscle tissue.  It can be a dull ache or 
sometimes a stabbing pain.  It often causes stiffness and limits ease of
mobility.  It disrupts sleep especially when sleep is needed.   Researchers
have show that during a flare-up the brain activity during sleep increases
so the sufferer is not getting the deep sleep needed to maintain a
healthy body.  During a flare-up, I wake up in the morning feeling  
almost more tired and achey than when I went to sleep.


There is no cure for this syndrome.  Hopefully this current flare-up
will not last too much longer, or at least will become less intense.
As I said, the last flare-up was two and one half years ago and when
I am symptom free, I am a very energetic person.  Right now I have
so little energy.  Yesterday when I went to the grocery store I could
hardly wait to finish and get home again.  I was exhausted.

All I can do now is take care not to over do and to try to get a
good night's sleep.  I am praying that this will come to an end
soon and that I can return to the life I love.

Big Texas Hugs,
Susan and Bentley





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